No More Boring Dates

Author: Ron Louis and David Copeland

We've been teaching about seduction since 1995, and as we start the New Year we celebrate our 10-year anniversary working as seduction teachers. Today's lesson draws from theories we discussed in "How to Succeed with Women" and later elaborated in our seminars and other resources. In this article we will explore the devastating effects of being nervous around women, and we'll offer some tips on how you can relax and communicate a relaxed and confident image to women.

How many of you struggle with feeling nervous, scared and anxious around women? Out of the thousands of men we've worked with nearly every guy struggles with anxiety. Most guys feel fear when approaching a woman, and guess what? It shows! When you feel scared, the woman senses it, sees it, feels it, and your chances of success go right into the toilet.

Can we make you super calm, cool, and relaxed overnight? No way. Fear and nervousness are part of being a seducer. Fear is a natural response when doing anything exciting—rock stars feel afraid before walking out on stage, athletes before starting a game, and amazing seducers feel it before approaching a woman. What separates successful people from unsuccessful people is that successful people learn how to utilize the POWER of their fear and use it to propel them into ACTION. Unsuccessful people become paralyzed by fear and fear becomes something that continually knocks them out of the game.

Fear and anxiety, in fact, can impact every aspect of succeeding with women. Not only can you feel nervous inside, but you also telegraph anxiety in your body movements, in the speed and way you speak, and in your general presence around women. So, we're going to recommend some ways to act around women and some ways NOT to act around women. Even if you can only partially implement these suggestions—your game will greatly improve with women. If not, you're likely to end up just another Boring Nervous Bonehead.

Boring Nervous Boneheads (BNBs) tend to move too quickly. When you feel pressure to approach and talk to a hot babe, your mind, in response, starts to speed up, and pretty soon you have created even more anxiety and it is even harder to make the actual approach. As you speed up, your heart rate then increases, your breathing becomes shallower, and pretty soon you've really freaked yourself out and the chances of success continue to plummet. And then you've again become…just another BNB.

Here are some things you can start doing TODAY to greatly increase your game and help you to more fully get in the game, feel better about yourself, and help you think more clearly and effectively on your feet.

Mindset
If we could listen in to the inner dialog of a BNB we'd hear all sorts of scary stuff. We'd hear someone telling themselves over and over that they are not good enough, that they can never succeed with women, that everyone else can learn from Ron and David -- why can't they? We'd likely hear someone saying over and over, "I can't approach her. I just feel too scared." We would likely hear loads of other negative self-critical talk. And after hearing these yucky things the BNB tells himself over and over, there would be no surprise in watching him fail as he approached women over the course of an evening, a week, a month, or even a year.

The BNB scares himself half to death each time he approaches a woman, rather than consistently working on his mindset to create more confidence. Instead of examining and challenging his limiting beliefs, his fears and concerns, the BNB becomes a victim to his own self-imposed prison.

The successful seducer, however, works for weeks, months, or even years to improve his confidence and feelings of self worth. Consistently grapple with his own notions of The successful seducer works on projecting confidence, self-acceptance, strength and openness. The successful seducer consciously works on changing his inner dialog to play the messages that are empowering, not limiting.

Talking too fast
The Boring Nervous Bonehead simply talks too damn fast. When approaching a woman for the first time, the BNB talks so fast that she can hardly understand what he is saying. The BNB projects fear from the moment he opens his mouth, and the woman therefore has no doubt that he's just another BNB and blows him off immediately. The successful seducer is able to enunciate when he speaks and he talks slowly enough so that the woman can clearly understand him.

The successful seducer is not in a hurry when talks to women. He feels comfortable enough to leave space in the conversation for silences. The successful seducer enjoys the tension of silence.

The successful seducer takes his time when talking to women so that he can connect with her and he can keep himself in a calm frame of mind. Starting today, when you approach a woman slow down your speed when speaking.

Nervous movements
There are a host of movements we all do when we're nervous. And to make matters worse, the more nervous movements you make around a woman the more nervous you will feel inside. Start to become aware of how you do these movements and work on eradicating them from your repertoire.

Specifically, a BNB does thing like moving his hands around like a crazy person when he speaks. The BNB fidgets because he is so nervous. He also makes jagged motions that seem unnatural. Jagged motions tend to convey someone who is stiff and tense. Worst of all, the BNB avoids eye contact with women. He's afraid to take the risk of facing a woman, looking into her eyes, and having her know that he is checking her out.

How does the master seducer move? He moves in a graceful manner, not in wild and crazy hand gestures. A relaxed seducer seems like he's out talking to a friend, not trying to bust out some huge sex moves on women. The confident seducer can just enjoy interacting with women at any stage of the game and his body posture and motions display his level of comfort.

Trying too hard
The BNB feels he has to win women over, and does so by trying too hard. He comes across more like a used car salesman than a seductive guy. As we mention in "How to talk to Women", the Extroverted Communicator tends to compensate for fear by talking too much and too loudly. The Introverted Communicator, however, telegraphs his fear by not talking loudly enough and by being too scared to keep initiating conversations with the woman.

The BNB shows that he is trying too hard with women by constantly nodding his head up and down in a "yes" motion when he talks to women, as if this will have some subtle impact on her being in a "yes" sort of mood. He might also frequently say, "Yea, I know just what you mean." Or, "right." Or he will say, "yes", or "ya know." These are all ways to look to her for validation. One sure-fire sign of a BNB is that he looks for validation from women. Guys who seek women's approval tend to become miserable failures with women and tend to forever spin their wheels due to a lack of confidence.

Not taking enough risks
By definition BNBs are BORING! They ask boring questions, they do predictable things, and they take very few actual risks with women. BNBs act like every other guy does and do nothing to stand out. The BNB is so amazed when a woman does actually reciprocate in a conversation that he becomes a submissive puppy dog.

The BNB tends to supplicate to a woman when he first meets her, rather than risk slowing down more, and demanding MORE from both her and him. The BNB settles for his own wimpy behavior to NOT push things harder and to not share his romantic and sexual side with women.

The confident seducer takes risks when interacting and talking to women. The confident seducer challenges women when talking. He moves his body in close to a woman when talking and risks upsetting her. The confident seducer takes conversational risks by bringing up controversial subjects and pushing both touch and humor to the line. The confident seducer also pushes himself to do things that are uncomfortable to both challenge his own sense of fear and to get outside of his own comfort zone.

In closing, you can start TODAY to attack these problems and to actively go out and work on yourself as a seducer. You do this by being out in the field, interacting with women, and putting in the corrections to never again be just another BNB. If you work on the skills put forth today, you will greatly improve your life as a seducer, feel a greater sense of confidence, have more fun with women, and find yourself succeeding at greater levels than you have before.

Best of luck !

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About the Author:
Ron Louis and David Copeland are dating coaches and authors of the best selling "How to Succeed with Women"

What You Should Know About Attractive Women

Author: Michael W. a.k.a. The Dating Wizard

There are Attractive women going out of their minds.They are going out of their minds with BOREDOM!

Do you know why ?

Because, without expending any effort, attractive women tend to have the things that most people DREAM of having. An attractive woman can sleep with ANY guy she wants. She also has men willing to pay for her things, and buy her endless fancy gifts, and give her deluxe butt kissing treatment. Her female friends wish they could be her, and they look up to her and her exploits. (They're also jealous as heck, but that's another story)

All this ends up making attractive women feel that they are superior beings. After all, they are given that message in all their interactions with most people, male or female. And if you feel that you are superior, then you feel NO GUILT WHATSOEVER about treating other people with less respect (to put it mildly) than you'd demand for yourself.

They have no problem sleeping at night being dishonest or rude. All this changes, however, if a woman feels she is dealing with someone who is just as superior as she is, if not even MORE SO.

This is the cold hard truth.

This is a big reason (not the only reason, though) why women do things like agree to meet you for a first date and then flake out and never show up. Most guys communicate to attractive women that they are inferior to the women.

They do this with extra-nice behavior, like smiling way more than they would with someone else, or by buying her fancy dinners, or by showing off in an effort to show that they are worthy.

Sometimes, guys give off the aura of being inferior by acting MEAN, which women can see right through as a device designed to overcompensate for low self-esteem.

And because attractive women are BOMBARDED by men, they must QUICKLY decide if a guy is worth their time- this is why FIRST IMPRESSIONS are so important. Attractive women feel sexual chemistry a man who EXUDES an aura of ABSOLUTE SUPERIORITY.

Some guys think this means to be a total jerk. Wrong. A jerk would show off a lot, and be cruel, and give off the message that he is actually insecure. Which is almost as bad as being too nice.

When you hear about a woman who calls her boyfriend a jerk, but she stays with him, the reality is most likely that he is not a real jerk, just a cocky super-confident guy that cannot be pushed around.

There are many ways to convey that you have SUPERIOR INTRINSIC VALUE.

Here are few examples to show SIV when you meet a woman anywhere:

1. Teasing her in a friendly way- something she is doing, wearing, etc. Being a smartass shows you're in control.
2. Not pressuring her in any way, no matter how subtle, and just enjoying the conversation. Examples of not creating subtle pressure is NOT giving her compliments- she knows those compliments usually mean you want something. Also, NOT physically leaning in toward her all the time as if her every word was divine.) This means that you are not needy and don't need to resort to these pressure methods, since you have plenty of other women and so are laid back.
3. Hitting it off in conversation with other women around you.
4. Instead of trying so hard to get along, playfully accuse them of doing naughty things. This shows you don't need to impress them, and is funny too.
5. Letting women know that you know their games- this tells women you must have been with a lot of women in order to know.
6. Not tolerating the slightest iota of disrespect, while at the same time not getting emotional about it. This shows a woman that you are used to getting respect and that you have no need to keep her around if she doesn't meet your standards.

These are just a FEW methods of indicating SIV. Once a woman senses and feels that you are a bit superior to her, she'll feel a sense of attraction she hasn't felt in a long time.

Article Source: http://www.datingclass.com/dating/attractive-women.shtml

About the Author:
Michael W, better known as The Dating Wizard, is a dating and relationship consultant for men, as well as a frequent guest on radio and television talk shows. Michael has spent over four years studying the specific male behaviors that trigger attraction in women. His findings are based on both his real life observations of men who are successful with women, as well as his research on evolutionary psychology and its applications to sexual attraction.

How to Get Your Ex Back

Author: L Astor

Do you ever sit around, feeling sorry for yourself asking; when am I going to be reunited with my ex? Is everyone happily married, or in a relationship, except for me?

Your ex boyfriend or partner may be the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Since he is no longer with you, chances are he will not jump out of your TV screen and he won’t turn up miraculously from under your duvet cover!

If you spend your time moaning to your friends about your ex, and telling them how much he has hurt you - it is time for you to make some big changes!

5 EFFECTIVE SECRET TIPS TO HELP GET YOUR EX BACK

Secret 1

During the break-up period with your ex he may have telephoned you occasionally, out of the blue; it’s now very important to keep any conversations that you have with him, to a minimum.

Secret 2

If your ex wants your attention, he will now have to work hard for it. For instance, he may start phoning you; because you are not chasing anymore. He might call you, to find out if you are all right; asking you how you are coping with the break-up, or even better, he is already missing you! Never be tempted to talk to him on the telephone; listening to his problems, or telling him just how heartbroken you are.

Secret 3

DEALING WITH MUTUAL FRIENDS

STOP ‘bad mouthing’ or talking about your ex to mutual friends you share. The best secret concerning shared friends is to give the appearance of being happy at all times in their presence, even if you do feel like breaking down and crying. Keep mutual friends second guessing about you and what’s going on in your life. After all they may still be communicating with your ex. If that is the case you can use them to your advantage to make sure he knows that you are not an emotional wreck, just because you are now no longer together.

Secret 4

STOP driving past the place where he is living or working. After all, you do not want to be accused of stalking him!

Secret 5

Do not make the mistake of texting or emailing him constantly. This will just have you shouting at your cell phone screen “Come on, answer”, or checking every few minutes for a reply from him.

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How Couples Can Get Intimate Without Intercourse

Author: Teeja Hivsbob

Oftentimes, intimacy is too much equated with intercourse that the other possibilities for achieving satisfaction are opted for only as an afterthought. The truth is, intimacy involves the entire build-up, and there are many ways to get intimate without necessarily being involved in the actual sexual contact.

The following are a few ways to enhance intimate moments with your partner, while prolonging the thrill of the experience.

The touch - most people treat touching-feeling as part of an immature idea on sex. It is true that almost all sexual experiences begin with touching and feeling, in an effort to find out how a partner's body can feel like, which touch excites it, and which ones do not.

Because this is usually done in haste, or by experimenting in the dark, there are few chances to fully grasp it for all its worth. The next time you get intimate with your partner with touch, take your time, and take it very slowly; you'll be surprised how much you can communicate to your partner with just a simple caress.

The vibe - we seldom realize that we send out vibes to other people, those which usually cause them to react; this is because the tendency is practically second nature, and we do this without even thinking about it. Your boss' foreboding mood is telegraphed across the room, causing you to hesitate in your tracks and turn the other way.

The same thing applies with intimacy; if you've ever felt goose bumps and tingles after your partner looks at you a certain way, then you should get the idea. It may be sent over a glass of wine or on the sofa, while you are holding hands or pulling over on the garage, it doesn't matter; the energy is felt, and if it sent at the right time and with the right mood, a response is bound to occur.

The talk - some people believe that dirty talk is a sensitive element of sexual contact. This is true to a certain extent; your partner may not be open to the idea of suggestive or vulgar speech before or during intercourse, or there may be certain words and phrases which go over the line. But most of the time, the talk is an important sexual element.

You can also add to the thrill by using other means of stimulation, such as watching adult videos prior to the act. Adult videos can spice up the act by contributing to the building anticipation. If you're partner isn't too keen on such a suggestion, he or she may have a wrong impression on the issue.

Make sure that you show your partner in a loving way that adult videos and dirty talk can enhance the experience, and that he or she should at least give it a try before making any conclusions.

As potent as each of these methods may be, these are even more effective if they are complemented with each other. Intimacy covers many facets, verbal, psychological, and physical, that using all the tools at your disposal can only result in a heightened experience.

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Seduce Women Instantly - The Secrets of Seducing Female Friends

Author: Scott Patterson

As any man who has ever had a girlfriend can confirm, chicks are jealous creatures. They're forever accusing their dates of checking out other women and hitting on their friends - and, much as we may deny it, they're frequently right.

Most guys suspect that their relationship isn't going to last. At some point his girlfriend's jealousy and paranoia are going to become too much for him. Or possibly his wandering eyes will drive her into dumping him. Either way, the end seems inevitable, and it pays to be prepared.

If you have more than a handful of dates with a chick, you're likely to meet her friends. And some of those friends are likely to be attractive. By charming those girls now, you can ensure that your eventual break up will do nothing to stop you scoring with them in the months to come.

So how do you go about it?

The first thing to remember is never to do the dirty on your girlfriend. It doesn't matter how gorgeous her very drunken friend is, good guys do not cheat.

Bad guys know better, too; if your current girl catches you misbehaving word will soon get around for single girls to steer well clear of you. It's rarely worth the fallout.

But you can pave the way for post-break-up encounters with other girls.

Bear in mind that you are currently unavailable - so act it. Don't use any pick up lines, don't exchange innuendoes and don't attempt to get your girl's best friend to kiss you. Your mission just now is not to actually score with her friends; it's to get them to like you enough that you'll stand a chance with them in the future.

Ironically, the best way to get your girlfriend's friends interested in you is to be interested in your girlfriend. If you treat her well and show yourself to be a sweet, considerate guy you will immediately be seen as a catch. Making a big deal out of her birthday or special occasions is a great way to show that you care about her, while asking her friends for advice about which gifts to buy or where to take her will simultaneously flatter and impress them.

Build up a genuine rapport with her friends. Make a point of remembering their names and little details such as their jobs, hobbies and what types of pet they all keep. When one of them talks to you, make sure you really listen. Maintain eye contact, smile and pay attention to what they're telling you. If you can establish a friendly connection with the girls, they'll miss you after the break up - and will grab every opportunity to re-establish that bond.

Be aware of how the girls are feeling. If one looks or sounds unhappy, ask if she's okay. If she wants to talk, turn your shoulders towards her and let her explain exactly what's getting her down. This will ensure that everyone sees you as a caring, sensitive and desirable man.

When you do break up with your current girl, try to keep things civil. If the relationship ends with a fight, her friends will feel that they have to take her side. If, however, you and your ex are able to exchange pleasantries her friends will feel free to do the same.

A break up doesn't have to signal the end of all contact with a group. Play your cards right now and the end of one flirtation could very well be the start of something new.

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Learn How To Kiss

Author: Randy Cartwright

Trust me nobody will tell you if you are a bad kisser but they will tell everybody else. Good kissing is really important. That is why you need to get it right. No one wants to be drooling all over somebody's face.

Who doesn't want to be a good kisser? Kissing is the first intimate touch. In actuality it is the first impression of intimacy. We all know how important first impressions are - that is why being a good kisser will get you lots of brownie points in the intimacy department.

What Creates A Good Kiss?

A good kiss uses no one technique. Both the lips and tongue need to be immersed. A good kiss is wonderful. You know how we all like to be touched. Caressing and kissing together paired with impulses of passion will really get your partner going.

Good kissing is sensitive and all inclusive. You use both your tongue and mouth to simulate your partners senses. You can caress the inside of her lips with your tongue while touching your lips against theirs. Then while putting your hands through your partners hair you really stimulate the senses.

After it is over there is that wow moment where you look one another in the eyes with a deep feeling of connection and pleasure. We all know that look when you really stimulate your partner with passionate yet sensitive kissing. This is the real peak of intimacy - get it right and everyone concerned will experience the ultimate ecstasy.

A Few Essential Tips

Sometimes it is difficult to maintain a great kiss when you are trying to shuffle your feet around to move in closer after you start. Move in close to your partner before you kiss them. By being close in the beginning you will not end up in an uncomfortable position.

Make sure that you are being gentle and follow their signals to know when to kiss with more passion. Sometimes passion can make you be a little rough, and while a stronger kiss has its place that usually isn't from the start. Treat your partners lips as if they were the most delicate thing you could imagine.

If you can master being relaxed while you are kissing, even if you are a little nervous about your technique, you will become a much better kisser. When you are tense anywhere on your body it will show in your kiss.

Make sure that you relax and enjoy the moment.

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Out-of-the-box Anniversary Surprise Ideas

Author: Teeja Hivsbob

If showing up on the doorstep with a dozen roses just won't cut it anymore, and a dinner date at a fancy restaurant becomes a ho-hum experience, maybe you need to put some quirky zest on your next anniversary surprise.

If you're at a loss in deciding what to get for your hubby on your anniversary day, save the champagne for later, and do try these nifty ideas both wacky and romantic.

How about a medieval surprise? Visit a local costume shop and rent a medieval armor; if you can ride on horseback, then all the better. Straddle up to your doorstep at an unexpected hour of the day (such as early in the morning when you're supposed to be at work), surprise your wife in the middle of a lawn mulching, dismount, and pay your chivalrous respects.

Do have an experience planned for her at this point; if you don't, all you're efforts will practically come to naught. Take her to the park or give her a ride around the block, just make sure that everyone sees her astride a horse, with her shimmering armor at the girdle.

Take her out to breakfast while you have the house cleaned down to the last nooks and crannies. Do your own version of an extreme home makeover (albeit in a much smaller scale). Have the curtains changed, the laundry cleaned and the garbage taken out, the floor vacuumed (even underneath the rugs), and if your budget permits, have a professional create a topiary out of the lawn shrubs. Housewives have a special spot for men who have the rebuilding spirit, especially if it involves a leaky roof or a dripping faucet; this one's a sure winner.

Rearrange a bachelorette reunion party. Sure, you've been married for five years - that's what makes the surprise extra special. Have all of her best friends come over and while the night away with a repeat bachelorette party - sans the stripper of course.

Make sure you have all the staples in place - suggestive games and sex toys included. Your wife may have received sex toys before her wedding night, and if you haven't seen a trace of them during all these years, this is the best opportunity to tell her that you're open to the idea of using implements to enhance your intimate moments.

The best is saved for last; get down on your knees and ask her to remarry you. This is the perfect anniversary gift, the opportunity to renew your vows in front of the same congregation, a testimony of your faith with each other. After the reception, plan a dinner date - in France.

Top off the experience by spending your vacation savings on a European cruise or similar exploits, or kick off your feet while sipping a glass of margarita at some exotic beach. You've been saving for a long vacation anyway, why not spend it now, while you still have the blissful momentum?

You get to relive the experience of newlyweds on a honeymoon, except that with this one, there's an assurance that you'll both get through the seven-year itch together.

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Signs of Flirting

Author: Ron Lewis & David Copeland


There are 10 essential flirting tips that you must know. Flirting body language will give guys some hint whether to approach, propose or progress to another stage.These are critical flirting advice if you are to get out of the "Friend" zone and into the "Potential Lover" category with any woman:

1. Smiling. You must smile. You probably think you smile now, but you don't, really. You should practice your smile in the mirror--to be big enough to be noticed, your smile will probably have to be bigger than you are used to.
   
   
2. Getting caught looking. Most people look away when the object of their desire looks at them. If you want to let that person know you are interested, when she catches you looking, smile, hold eye contact a moment longer, then look away.
   
   
3. Waving. A little wave to someone who caught you looking, along with a smile, is a non-intrusive, very flirty way to say "hello."
   
   
4. Winking. You can wink at someone from across the room, or wink at someone during a conversation. If she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, you can give a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of.
   
   
5. Asking "what's the story behind that?" You can ask "what's the story behind that?" about any special or unusual thing your quarry is wearing or carrying. Examples: "that's really neat bracelet you are wearing. What's the story behind that?" or "That's a really great briefcase. What's the story behind that?" Even if there isn't much of one, it's given you some conversation.
   
   
6. Holding eye contact. While you are conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once it's a good idea to hold the eye contact a little "too long," just a fraction too long, so there's a brief, more intimate moment between you.
   
   
7. Non-intrusive touching. This can be as simple as placing your hand lightly on her hand for a moment, or touching her back for a moment as you walk to a table to sit down. Just do this a couple of times on the first flirting interaction--if she pulls away, don't do it again.
   
   
8. Checking her out. Checking out her body must be done properly. The goal is for your new friend to feel complimented that you noticed her body, not objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over her body, then back to looking in the eyes. It should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking a glance. Just don't do it too often.
   
   
9. Using the "Good-bye compliment." If you are shy, flirting with the "good-bye compliment" may be just the thing you need. On your way out, you simply go up to the woman you want to flirt with, and say something like, "Hi, I have to go now, but before I did, I really wanted to let you know that you have a really great sense of style, and that I noticed it. I wish I had more time to spend with you, but I have to go." Then leave. This allows you to build your confidence in approaching women, without having to take the risk of rejection--after all, you have to leave, you couldn't stay even if they wanted you to! (Some men also ask for phone numbers at this point.)
   
   
10. Stopping while it's still fun. Remember, flirting should be fun, and you should leave the flirting interaction feeling victorious. Most men leave their flirting interactions feeling like failures because they don't stop until it stops being fun. If you stop flirting on a high point, while it's still fun, your new friend will feel good when thinking of you, and want to see you again.

Article Source: http://www.datingclass.com/seduction/signs-of-flirting.shtml

About the Author:
Ron Louis and David Copeland are dating coaches and authors of the best selling "How to Succeed with Women"

Dating Female – Are You Ready

Author: Hans Kok

Are you enjoying dating? Dating. It is all about meeting people who can become friends and may also one day be your love one. Dating is also having people face to face together so to know each other better, in the form of physically looking at each other, the way you talk, smile, etc, as this may path the way for a long term lasting relationship.

With this on mind, dating can be fun and exciting. But you must be committing to dating if you really want to success in the game. For those who are half hearted, it will not work for you, as you will not be willing to put in the extra time and effort to make it work for the date. The effort you put in your first few dates are little as compare to the time and effort you will put in the long term lasting relationship. The most important is the fulfilment and the complete of you when the thing works out.

Get yourself ready for the dating game. Go for a hair cut or styled to make you look more friendly, approachable, and neat. You may also get some beauty treatment like a facial before the dating, do it a few day before the actual dating, so to prevent any redness or breakout that might occur immediately after the facial. To relax and calm down your exciting mood, or wind down from all the work pressure that might affect your date, you may go for a spa massage. Do that about two days before the dating. This is because you will get real tire and relax after the treatment.

Go shopping and buy yourself a set of new clothes and even a whole new look. Make sure you get your image right. People appreciate appearance and generally most women will like it if they see that you have put in some effort prior to the date.

Dating is fun, enjoy and learn something positive out from the outing. It may be you first date or you may have already gone through a few ‘fruitless’ dates, but just enjoy each date as it will give hope to those who work for it.

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Choosing the Right Person From the Dating Scene

Author: Alina Ruigrok

Okay, so you date people hoping that one of these days you will come across the right person, the one you will make the greatest romantic connection with. But does it feel like you are going nowhere and believe that you just have no luck with meeting the right people? Feel like you are lost and doomed in this whole dating business? Stop feeling sorry for yourself!

The reality of this situation is that luck has nothing to do with it. If you are like many people, you are probably dating blindfolded, without even realizing that you are doing so. If you feel unsuccessful and dissatisfied with your dating patterns, then it is time for you to take a few steps back to see where things went wrong for you. Think you have been doing everything right? Think again! If you look back, you will be surprised to learn that you got so caught up in just the whole dating experience, that you forgot what to look out for and neglected your true needs and desires. What are you really looking for in a lover? What are your needs and desires? What qualities are important for a person to have and what other qualities are you willing to compromise with and accept?

Getting back in touch with what you are really looking for will help prevent you from staying in the dating scene forever. It is essential that you observe your actions and decisions, making sure that you do not continue to date certain people in the name of dating. If you find that you are not sharing the connection you crave with a person, then you must discontinue with dating that person. Sure, you will feel bad for hurting that persons feelings, but what you must remember is that there is nothing too personal or emotional between the two of you anyway, so just throw that excuse out- and just break it off, in a polite manner of course! This is where so many get stuck, mistaking casual trial dates, with a personal and emotional relationship. This may sound too business-like for your taste, but this is the way it goes in the real world of dating. If you spend your time trying to spare people hurt or disappointment, then you have been doing it all wrong. This does not mean that you have to be harsh and rude, but it does mean that you have to make finding the right person a first and high priority for, not worrying about what other people with think of you.

Which moves us to the next essential point in dating. While it is normal that you fix yourself up to make a great impression on your date, it is not the most important thing that you should focus on. In fact, so many dating singles out there worry so much about what their date will think, that they totally forgot the purpose of the date- to find out whether or not they will find the connection they are seeking. No matter how you fix yourself and what manners or personality you put on, you will never be in control of what your date will think or feel about the date, so set that unnecessary stress aside. Instead, shift your focus about what you will think about him or her. Observe everything about them. Do YOU like their appearance? Does their personality appeal to YOU? Do YOU feel that you are making a good connection? As you can see, it is what you think that is important here, because you are the one looking for the right person, as well as certain qualities. Leave what they think, up to them!

The fear of being single forever can cloud your good judgment, causing you to continue seeing a person who you know you are not entirely satisfied with. You will do this because you will try to convince yourself that maybe you have been too picky and being with anybody, even if you are not crazy about him or her, is better than nobody. Stop lying to yourself! You do not have to get stuck with someone you are not entirely happy with, nor do you have to be single forever. Being honest and up front from the beginning is what will get you where you want to be and whom you want to be with. Do not worry that you may scare off someone by telling him or her exactly what expectations you have and how serious of a relationship you are looking for. Look at this way, if they get scared that quickly, then it is a sign that they were not looking for the same thing as you are, so it saves you time and you can then move on to dating someone else.

As long as you get real with yourself, stop making excuses, know what your really want, stick to it and make it clear to the people that you date, then you will be safe from too many mixed messages, misunderstandings and frustrations. When you treat your goal of meeting the right person seriously and important, then you will stay motivated to find him or her, and when you do- you will finally be able to begin the kind of relationship that you have always longed for, needed and deserve.

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5 Manly Personality Traits That Are Seductive to Women

Author: Scott Patterson

Ask any group of girls to describe their ideal man and each one will give you a different answer. While one lusts after silent beefcakes another goes gushy over geeks in glasses. Some chicks love brains, some brawn, the more demanding among them want both. The truth is, there's no such thing as the universally perfect guy.

This is great news for us men. It means that whatever you look like, there is a girl who wants you. Whatever your interests or occupation, there's a chick who finds you fascinating.

But what if you want to broaden your appeal by making yourself attractive to as many girls as possible?

Luckily, there are certain character traits which almost every woman finds desirable. Read on to discover what they are.

1. A Sense of Humor

We are forever being told that women want a man with a sense of humor. We are being told this because it is true.

If you can make a woman laugh she will quickly come to associate spending time in your company with feelings of happiness. In the shorter term, putting a smile on a girl's face is the simplest way of putting her at ease.

Bear in mind that girls are rarely amused by mad pranks and crude jokes. Instead, deliver a selection of amusing anecdotes and master the art of the irreverent wisecrack.

2. Ambition

Many men believe that every girl wants a guy with money. This is not necessarily true. Sure, most chicks would love to dine in the finest restaurants and relax in your penthouse apartment - but accumulated wealth means less to them than your future ambitions.

Even a penniless student can impress a girl if he has big dreams. Make it clear that not only do you have great goals but that you are actively pursuing them and your determination will soon win her over.

3. Attentiveness

Every girl loves to feel like she's special, and that's exactly how you should treat her.

On a first date, show some good old-fashioned manners. Hold doors open for her, pick up the check and offer her your jacket if she's cold.

When she talks to you, listen. Don't let your eyes wander across the room and don't interrupt her with exciting tales of your own. Bear in mind that when women share their problems they're looking for sympathy not solutions, so keep your helpful suggestions to yourself for now, squeeze her hand and wear your best supportive smile.

4. Confidence

If you don't think you deserve her attention, why should she bother giving it to you?

Women don't want to spend all evening reassuring you that you're worth spending time with. Learn to ignore those niggling doubts about yourself and fake some self esteem. Stand up straight and resist the urge to hide in the corners. Meet her eyes, smile widely and consciously maintain a slow, steady tone of voice.

If you can act like you're someone special, she will believe that you are.

5. A Sense of Fun

Whether your aim is a one night stand or a series of dates, boredom and negativity are your worst enemies. Don't complain to her and don't lecture her about everything that's wrong with the world. Instead, focus on the positive. Approach your time together with energy and enthusiasm, show spontaneity and tell her about all the fun and exciting ways you like to live your life.

Invite her to try something new, tease her and tell her jokes, or simply show enthusiasm for the future. You can become any woman's ideal man; you just have to be the one who makes her smile.

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Online Dating-dating Sites to Avoid

Author: Vivian Johnson

Once you begin shopping for an online dating site to join you will realize just how many dating sites there are! Just like everything else there are good ones and bad ones. So, keep your eye open and your wallet shut until you are sure!

Here are just a few dating sites to avoid...

Avoid the dating site that asks for your credit card before you can set up a free trial profile. (They will later charge your card because you didn’t cancel your free trial in a timely manner. But they didn’t tell you the cancellation had to be by mail!)

Avoid the site with limited search options. This will allow you to customize and narrow your results. This will let you concentrate on the singles that fit your requirements. Many sites will not have extensive search option to mask the fact that they do not have as large of a member base as they proclaim.

Avoid the site that does not show the last time a member logged in. Many sites will keep members on their site indefinitely. Why? Because the member never took the time to tell the site to cancel their membership. Most of us singles do not formally tell the site to remove us from their member roster. We just stop logging in or we let our paid membership lapse.

I discovered the hard way the “membership game” a lot of online dating sites use. When your membership expires and your profile is still up? The site will then “reclass” your profile back to “free trial”. Not only is your profile still visible but you will still get mail! Then one day you will get an email from the site administrator that you have mail. You go to check it out and your mail box is full! But, once again you can’t access all of these emails unless you renew your membership. “...and do they have a great renewal rate for you. For today only!”

Once you learn how to spot the scams you will know how to avoid certain dating sites!

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Dumb Pick Up Lines That Make Women Laugh

Dumb Pick Up Lines That Make Women Laugh

Author: Scott Patterson

Every man knows how intimidating it can be to strike up a conversation with a beautiful woman. She's standing across the room, surrounded by a gaggle of her friends, and you're left to your own devices to figure out the best way to approach her.

Unfortunately, you decide to take the advice of your comrades and use one of their dumb pick up lines.

And no sooner do you speak these words than she walks away from you, repulsed.

It's obvious you blew your chances because you used such a phony pick up technique.

That's the problem with dumb pick up lines- they never actually work to get a woman's positive attention. Instead of using them, you should try coming up with unique and original things to say to her.

Here are several effective methods that are successful in garnering a woman's positive attention:

1) Situational conversation starter-

It's important to learn how to use your environment to your advantage. If you happen to see something that's especially strange or funny, use it as an opportunity to strike up a conversation with a woman who also witnessed the event. By telling a joke or making a witty remark about what you saw, you'll not only appease any awkwardness about the situation, but you'll be showing her that you have a laid-back, positive attitude.

2) Just be yourself-

While it might sound overly simple, walking up to a woman and introducing yourself is an efficient way to initiate a dialogue. When you use this technique, you're avoiding the mistakes that the majority of other men succumb to. Your confident demeanor and the fact that you aren't using crazy gimmicks to get her attention will be refreshing to her. She'll appreciate your straightforwardness and honesty.

3) Be Funny

There are few things more attractive to a woman than a sense of humor. When using this technique, it's important to carry yourself confidently when attempting to make her laugh.

Seize every chance you can to tease her and build yourself up as a prize she should try to win for herself. This method is especially successful because you're not being overly blatant about the fact you're trying to win her over.

Dumb pick up lines rarely work to get a woman's positive attention. Before you decide to use one of them, you should consider your other options.

Try using one of the above pick up methods next time you decide to strike up a conversation with a beautiful woman. You'll be pleased with how much more effective they are than dumb pick up lines.

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Core Element Of Confidence

Authour: Shelley McMurtry

What is a good confidence made of ? What features are needed ? And, how does a man demonstrate he has a good confidence?

The "core" to a good confidence holds many facets. But, we are first going to speak of one feature which many times goes ignored by men (and it's something women pick up on immediately!!).

This primary element in the foundation of confidence is TRUST. That's right, trust.

You have heard me speak about the importance of getting over past relationships and hurts. Well, this is a part of the reason why.

See, to show confidence you need to be secure. Secure in yourself and secure with the woman you are with. And, secure in your dating life or relationship.

However, if you are constantly afraid she will leave you, cheat on you, or lie to you then you will be in this constantly fearful, weak state. Likewise, the comments and "energy" you give off will exemplify that you are afraid, fearful and weak. And, those elements DO NOT describe someone who is confident.

To show that you are "confident", you have to show "confidence" and "security" in her. You have to show that you are secure enough to trust her!!

Now... in the "background" you can still look for "red flags" or reasons to why you might not be able to trust her (and if that is the case-- you shouldn't be with her). But, if you choose to be with a woman, then you need to be able to fully trust her.

I once had a relationship with a man too soon after he got out of another relationship, where the woman had cheated on him, lied to him and even stole from him. Soon, the reality became painfully obvious... He constantly appeared "weak". He was constantly afraid I was going to cheat on him. He was constantly afraid I was going to do the exact same things. So, after about two weeks, I told him that I didn't think we should date.

1. He needed to get over past hurts.
2. I don't date men that don't trust me and are not secure with themselves and with me.

Showing jealousy and insecurity are both signs that you have a low self-image/ self-esteem and overall low confidence. They are sure signs that you are "weak" to a woman !

Moving on...

Another important element in the foundation of confidence is the ability to trust YOURSELF, depend fully on yourself, and live a good life, so that you will be proud of who you are and what you stand for.

If you are constantly questioning yourself, live with regret, or know that you are an untrustworthy cheater, then you will always carry that negative weight with you. That will also make you appear weak and insecure... because you will be!!

The most confident and secure men that I know are not those with loaded bank accounts, fancy cars or high priced houses necessarily. Instead, they are men who live a stable lifestyle, are independent and know they can fully depend on themselves, know what they stand for, and also know that they deserve great things.

It goes along with the saying, "If you can't trust yourself, you can't trust anyone else".

As a woman, if I was to make a list of what comprises a "confident" man, my list would look something like the following:

1. Secure with himself
2. Able to laugh at himself
3. Proud
4. Developed sense of self
5. Emotionally strong
6. Not fearful of the future & happy in the moment
7. Not easily intimidated

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Approaching Women With Success

Author: Jon Mercer

The internet is full of tips on approaching women. You can get advice on anything from how to get laid to how to meet your future wife. Unfortunately, most of these tips don't work. Why? Because hey are written by men who have no clues as to what women want.

A lot of these guys aren't even good with women; they are thirty or forty something single guys whose knowledge of women comes from the internet and television.

Granted, some of these guys are better than others, but even the ones that might have had some success in getting laid (or even getting married), don't really understand how women work. They might have had some success using a certain pickup line or attitude when approaching women and they assume that's what got the hall pass, but really, they have no clue.

Most women make up their mind within seconds of seeing you as to whether or not they would consider sleeping with you. This doesn't mean that you are in if her answer is yes, it means that she would consider it, and if you play your cards right you might have a chance.

It is a misconception that women are just being difficult or coy when they are picking their mate. In fact, women are just true to their physical and emotional responses when they choose who they want to be with.

Even if a woman is just looking for a bit of fun, she is still likely to choose a guy that she could see herself date. Keep this in mind when you are approaching women. You need to connect with her at least somewhat on an intellectual and emotional level as well as the physical.

Those first few seconds when women do their initial evaluation of you, they are interpreting all these signals that you re not even aware of sending out. Women are not as visual as men, they of course like men to bee good looking, but how you look to them is largely determined by how you feel about yourself. Almost every woman I've ever known has at some point thrown all her preconceived ideas of what kind of guy she's attracted to overboard because she met some guy that didn't fit her requirements at all but still somehow made her knees wobble.

Approaching women successfully starts with you. I know you've heard it all before, but it largely comes down to confidence. By confidence, I don't mean arrogance; being overly cocky can easily turn a woman off you. True confidence, the one that women love and look for is the subtle one. You don't even have to do much; it not about showing off, it's about how you feel in your own skin.

Next to good personal hygiene, and taking basic care of how you look, the best way to become good at approaching women is by working on yourself; build your confidence and learn to really like and appreciate yourself and women will too.

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For Guys: How to stand out from the rest.

Author: Simon Heong


If you want to be truly successful with women, you've got to learn ways to create instant attraction with women

What does the words "create attraction" really mean?

Ok - think of it this way...

Physically attractive, hot looking women have TONS of options when it comes to men.

Whether they like it or not, they are approached by men ALL THE TIME.

Now, if you've an average looking or probably physically 'unattractive' kinda guy -- how do YOU stand out from the rest then?

How do these physically attractive women choose their men?

What makes them sit up and take notice then?

Guys think that they will score better with a woman if their physically attractive... this is where their DEAD WRONG.

Instead, women find men with strong character & personality traits much more APPEALING to them.

Simply put -- CHARACTER & PERSONALITY are what women find most ATTRACTIVE in men. NOT looks.

Get that in your head.

How do you attract them?

Be flirtingly playful:

• Send mixed signals (make her laugh, give her an enjoyable time, let her think you're interested in her, then suddenly walk away)

• Be a mystery to her (when she asks for your name, don't give her a direct answer, if she asks for your occupation, tell her you're a crocodile hunter, the point is to keep her guessing, etc)

• Tease her (if she wants something from you, tell her she has to EARN it)

• Dominant (being the one in control of the situation and never allowing others to effect it)

What you must understand is in order for you to create attraction, you've got to first spark and then AMPLIFY the sexual attraction in her for you by communicating with her through playful verbal and non-verbal flirting.

Attraction is created by playfully flirting, using humor and demonstrating personality traits that women find most appealing to her... at the same time projecting you're in CONTROL of the situation in a very laid back & relaxed manner.

In order to create attraction then, you must constantly be using it on a woman.

You can't just use it "once in a while."

Instead, you've got to use it ALL THE TIME when you're with woman you're eye-ing for. And once you've done it enough, and IF you did it the 'right' way, you'll notice how women will open up to you & start flirting back with you in a playful, sensual and exciting way as well...

Let me give you an example...

If you say something like "Hi, my name's John. I can't help but notice how beautiful you are and I just had to come up and get to know you"...

This is NOT flirting.

Instead, you could go

Her: So are you here alone?

You: I'm not answering that.

Her: Why not?

You: How would I know if you're not a serial stalker.

Her: Hey (laughs) -- do I look like one?

You: Do you REALLY want to know the answer? ;-)

Do you get what I'm trying to say here?

I'm taking an everyday, casual question and turning it into something playful & fun with her.

You see, when you communicate to her in this manner, you're FLIRTING, being playful & TEASING her in a way that most men NEVER DO.

And the moment you get her 'into' this sort of flirting conversation, you begin to quickly spark that inner attraction in her.

Women generally aren't attracted to guys who constantly submit in to their demands, they want someone 'challenging', fun and EXCITING.

It's absolutely crucial for you to get this right from the very beginning when you're dating women.

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Simon Heong is the publisher of the Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "Instant Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST COMPREHENSIVE program revealing the most intimate secrets on female attraction techniques and dating strategies.

Lonely Old Ladies Love Homeless Young Guys

Author: melvin polatnick

If you are an elderly lady that lives alone in a large apartment, and are horny, there is hope for you. Find yourself a young guy that is homeless, he will be happy to live with you. The first thing to do if you are a woman looking for a homeless guy is to go to the public park; many of the homeless are there. You surely will find one that interests you. Walk up and kiss him on the lips, that is always a good start. But remember to tell him that you are sex starved., you will be delighted to hear how many will be happy to please you. That young guy that you kissed in the park can turn your lonely life into a happy one.



You are in luck, there is a housing shortage and there are many homeless men available. Someone who is homeless and can't afford an apartment will give you all the sex you need in exchange for rent. It is a terrible feeling to be homeless and what makes it even worse is that they have no hope of finding a place to live. Jobs that pay a decent wage are hard to find, and the homeless are forced to live in a horrible shelter or on the sidewalk. Sexual favors are all most homeless guys have to offer, and he will gladly make love to you in order to get off the streets. Elderly ladies that live alone are usually lonely and do not know how to connect with a young guy. But there are thousands of young homeless men who will gladly provide them with hot love in exchange for the opportunity to live rent free.



Most elderly ladies that live alone are sex starved, but fear to take in a homeless guy, they feel that the homeless stranger might abuse their kindness. It is possible that a guy will bite the hand that feeds him, but that is the exception. As long as your lover does not kill the goose that lay the golden egg it will be worth taking him in.



There are countless people that are homeless. They are suffering and nobody seems to care about their plight. There is help available for them. But it requires flexibility from the fortunate women that have a comfortable place to sleep. The lonely and often homely guys that live on the streets are suffering, they are abused and disrespected. They need a home from a person who will give them all the kindness, respect, and love that a human being deserves. If you search among the thousands of people that live in the park you are sure to find the lover you need.



Homeless people do not have to have a flaw in their personality, they can be the nicest people, but due to unfortunate circumstances they are without a home. The homeless come in all shapes and forms, and there are thousands of them that will be happy to share your home and bedroom. They have been deserted by society and nobody seems to care if they live or die. Like orphans they are begging for a place to live. . The lady that takes them in will be given all the sex she needs.



Many people think that the homeless guy is a worthless person, but he is still more important than a dog. It is a shame that a dog is more important to many pet owners than a homeless person. The homeless guy can be rehabilitated into becoming a valuable member of our society, when a dog at best could only be taught to fetch a ball. It would be a good idea if all dog owners were required to take in homeless person or lose their dog. Housing a dog while so many men go homeless is a statement from the pet owner that the ability to fetch a ball is more important to them than a homeless guy.

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Stress Can Do Harm To Your Sex Life

Author: Jerry Leung

Sex is one of the most important parts in our life. However, a recent phenomenon is that there are people who have no sex even if they have married. In fact, it can be a serious problem if both of the man and woman are physically healthy.

In fact, in most cases the reason for the above phenomenon is the lack in communication. They do not usually talk about the issue of sex. Yet it is very important to communicate about that. As most experts will suggest, communication and interaction is the most important for a couple. It is also true when the issue of sex is considered.

One thing you may know is that stress can also be a reason. People nowadays are too busy. We are busy at work everyday. We may think about our work even if we have gone home. In some countries, people will spend more than half of their time in the office. From this you will probably know that how stressful we are.

Since we are extremely exhausted, we may not have the desire in sex when we go home. This applies to both man and woman. And eventually the phenomenon of having no sex even after marriage occurs.

Having no sex will certainly do harm to your relationship. As a matter of fact, it is not healthy for a person to have no sex, if he / she is a physically healthy person. It is very vital to address the importance of sexual health here. It seems that most couples do not consider this issue seriously.

So what should you do if you find that you have lost your desire in sex. The first thing of course is to make sure that it is not any physical problem. You should go to a doctor to check it out.

If you are very busy at work, it is highly probable that you are losing the sex desire because of the stress. If this is the case, you should try your best to be relaxed. Try not to think about things related to your work when you are at home. It is very important to be relaxed when you are making love. Your sex experience will not be a wonderful one if you are not relaxed when you are having sex with your partner.

You should also tell you partner to relaxed. If you can afford the time, you can try to take a vacation with your partner. Your desire in sex may probably be reignite when you are in the hotel room!

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Online Dating Site – Tips on Writing a Good Profile

Author: Alan Lim

So you have registered on to an online dating site. Now you’re stuck – you have to write your profile and your grey cells are turning and turning but no bright ideas are coming up! How to start? What to write? What to include and what not to? Plenty of doubts and you haven’t even begun writing the first word.


Why are you writing your profile?


Tackling your profile on an online dating site is very challenging. The foremost is to be clear about the purpose of writing your profile. Let’s see:


• For fun and pleasure: that’s not a good reason and chances are you’ll end up with a boring profile – anyone in the mood for a nap?

• To lure a potential date: Now that a good reason – you want to present yourself in concise and precise fashion to a potential date. You want to attract a potential visitor without screaming out your attributes from the rooftop!

• To catch a potential suitor for marriage: Definitely the wrong reason to pen down your profile. An online dating site is not the means to hook a potential bridegroom folks!


How to write a good profile: Taking the bull by the horns!


In this case taking the pen to shape a masterful profile! When you have decided to bite the bullet and go in for online dating, don’t be embarrassed and pour your heart and soul into engineering the perfect profile for yourself.


Be you! Just be frank and honest


We don’t mean totally honest about irrelevant details. You don’t need to mention hiding the paint brush of a classmate in kindergarten! That stuff your date doesn’t need to know in your profile. Just start writing by talking about yourself – your likes, dislikes, beliefs and feelings! Don’t be pretentious and cloud yourself in flowery terms to intimidate a potential date!


Unique and stunning you


Ever heard of the phrase – one of a kind or one in a billion? That’s it folks – in the second part of your profile just write conversationally about what is so unique about you? What makes you tick? What makes you different from the rest of population? Describe your desires, ambitions and attitudes. Don’t hold back and be shy – if you are beautiful with an hour glass figure, write about it. If you are a Greek God, write about it.


Embrace your reader (only figuratively)


Be sure to talk to your reader on a personal level. Write about your hobbies and activities in an enjoyable fashion unraveling your personality inch by inch. Keep the readers anticipated with bated breath as they walk with you through your experiences and feel that they know you well.


Visual catch


Yes, the most important part of your profile has to be your photograph. Pasting your photo in your profile will do the trick on every online dating site. But please, paste a good photo which shows off your physical attributes nicely – don’t select and paste a photo which shows you in bedraggled clothes with disheveled hair. This is a visual world and people only pursue what they see. Hire a professional photographer if need be. Step on it folks and be sure to snap the right picture to be posted under your profile on online dating sites.


These tips could help you to write a killer profile. But be sure, to keep two to three personal profiles at hand. Don’t keep sticking the same profile on every online dating website.

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How To Get Over A Serious Breakup

How to Get Over a Serious Breakup

Author: Steve Albright

One of the hardest things to do in life is to break off a long term relationship, engagement, or marriage. Yet sometimes what's even harder is getting back out there and trying to start over again.

There are tons of experts and authors who all claim to have proven systems for getting over serious relationships. Yet really the majority of the time you need to do simple and productive things to keep your mind occupied while you heal. In due time, you will know if you are ready to move on and start seeing new people again.

Here are some simple things that you can do to help facilitate this process and recover quickly. The overall theme is to keep the focus on you and bettering yourself. This works in two ways, first by keeping your mind of the break up and secondly by improving yourself. You can get things done that were put on the back burner while the relationship was your number one priority.

You can approach this method through three aspects of yourself physical, mental, and spiritual. While working to improve these three aspects of yourself you will speed up the recovery process and come out a better person.

The first one is very simple to do, working on your physical self can be done through getting a gym membership or signing up for any kind of sports program. There is a close link between exercise and happiness, and raising your activity level will help you get out of the dark faster.

The next aspect to focus on is your mental well being. If you are in any kind of educational program i.e. college or grad school you can simply rededicate yourself to your school work. Often times students' grades drop when they are in a serious relationship and this opportunity gives you a chance to focus on your school work and improve them.

If not in school you can pick up a few books that you've been meaning to read but have been too lazy to get to. Again the point is to distract yourself from brooding over your ex by doing positive things. This way you will raise your self esteem while getting over the break up.

The last step which involves spirituality can be interpreted many different ways depending on people's personal beliefs. If you are religious again a simple re-dedication to your faith can help distract you from depressing thoughts that follow a difficult break up. Any other spiritual activities can have similar effects and are recommended.

These are a few simple strategies for dealing with breakups, and once you have made headway in each of these aspects you can begin to consider meeting someone new. Quite possibly the worst thing that you can do is jump back into a new relationship without properly getting over the last one.

It may seem daunting but some experts recommend remaining single for half the amount of time that the last relationship lasted. In some cases this rule of thumb may be too extreme but a reasonable amount of time should be taken to work on these methods between relationships.

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What the Man in Your Life Really Wants

Author: Paul Steven

This may sound like a bolt from the blue to a lot of Women out there but Men like surprises too! Putting some thought-process and thinking about his hobbies and personalizing your gestures will demonstrate that you do really care about him. You will surprise the man in your life with your thoughtful and tailored gift.

Here are a few offerings which might prompt you in the right direction to choosing a surprise gift - they range from the obscure to the geeky but they all have the man-factor-interest at heart.

One nice thing you could do is get him a private number plate for his car. Many men take pride in their car and enjoy spending their time to make sure it looks and runs its best. This is a good idea as it will show him that you understand his fascination with his car. If you are unable to do this in secret, go ahead and let him know about your plans. It's okay that it won't be a surprise because he will probably enjoy being involved in the process.

Buy him a gadget what man doesn't like them Many men enjoy all types of gadgets and gizmos and figuring out one that he is interested in and purchasing it for him will be a very welcomed gift. He will appreciate that while it may not be something you would want for yourself, you realize that it is something that he will enjoy.

Have you got different tastes in music why not buy him tickets to his favourite band and go with him. He will be super-sized that you got the tickets and your showing him an interest in his hobbies and taste of music.

Learning about the man in your life's favourite sport is another nice thing to do for him. He may enjoy spending his weekends watching his favourite sports teams and, if you are not normally a fan of this sport, you will surprise him by taking an active interest. Try doing some research on your own to learn a little more about his favourite sport and team and the next time he is watching a game, sit with him and ask pertinent questions. He will be astonished at your knowledge and eager to teach you more.

Doing something incredibly nice for a man doesn't have to be extravagant or complicated. Simple gestures that show that you understand his thoughts and feelings are those that will be most appreciated. In surprising the man in your life with some of these examples or other applicable things you will let him know how important he is to you.

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A Long Distance Love Affair - How to Go the Distance

Author: Lindsay Wagner

It's the stuff that great romance novels are made of. Boy meets girl, girl has to leave country but they're willing to make things work despite the distance and a 2 hour time zone difference. The story line never fails to cause interest and yet, it remains a story that some people view as fairytale material. Yet, there are many people that have strengthened their relationships despite the odds. You too can go the distance. It's a matter of trust, a matter of communication and a few old school romances necessitates.

So, how do you go the distance?

You may be considering immigrating to the country in which your partner resides. If so, there are many factors to consider. It's not a simple process but it is very possible.

What are your options?

Consider applying for a Fiance Visa.


If you're willing to propose, or you've been proposed to, applying for this visa may be a good option. A Fiance Visa can only be approved for a limited period before to the intent of marriage. Proof of a relationship with a citizen of the destination country is needed. Consider this example that could be of assistance: a German woman has accepted a proposal to marry an American man. She is required to obtain a Fiance Visa (also referred as a K-1 visa). This will allow her to enter the United States.

You'll need the following documents: A valid passport, birth certificate, divorce or death certificate of any previous spouse, police certificate from all places lived in since the age of 16, a medical examination certificate, evidence of support, evidence of a valid relationship with the petitioner and photographs according to specifications.

The beneficiary will be notified by the consular officer when the approved petition is received. The beneficiary will also be provided with the necessary forms and instructions to apply for a K Visa.

Consider applying for a Spousal Visa A Spousal Visa is granted to the spouse of a resident or citizen of a given country in order to enable the couple to settle in that country. An example of such visas is the United Kingdom's EEA Family Permit.

For the K3

Spousal Visa (United States), you'll need the following documents: Two copies of Form DS-156, Non-immigrant Visa Application, one DS-156K, Non-immigrant Fiance Visa Application form, Police certificates from all places liven in since the age of 16 and birth certificates, marriage certificates for spouse, death and divorce certificates from any previous spouses, medical examination, medical examination (except vaccinations), A passport valid for travel to the United States and with a validity date at least six months beyond the applicant's intended period of stay in the United States. You'll also require two non-immigrant visa photo's, two inches 50 x 50 mm square showing full face against a light background, proof of financial support (Form 1-134 Affidavit of Support may be requested) and payments of fees.

Speak to a clued up consultant for in depth knowledge and assistance?

Of course, the rules are different for various countries, so it will be worth your while to a clued up consultant. to find the best solution for your unique situation.

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Online Dating Safety: Are You Falling In Love With a Scammer?

Author: Daryl Campbell

For the online dating industry life is good right about now. According to Jupiter Research, revenue generated now stands at over 500 million. Keep in mind this represents numbers compiled for 2006. Internet dating took a giant leap forward last year by being featured and talked about in quite a number of national and local media outlets so you can pretty much figure they will easily surpass that mark for 2007-2008.


However the online dating industry is not the only one making a fortune. If there is one thing you can be sure, it is that there will always be people who try to game the system. Say hello to the scammers.


No question online or off it is important to be on your guard but with internet dating being on guard takes on an added urgency. One of the major benefits of online hookups is also one of its most devastating drawbacks. The power of being anonymous has many people running wild but it has become an incredible tool for online scammers.


This puts you in a tough position. You meet someone online and everything feels so right. Time flies when you two are chatting and you feel it will not be long before the first meeting.


And it will be a first meeting alright. The meeting of your money and their bank account. The whole key with these scams is to play so heavily on your emotions that giving the scammer money almost seemed like your idea.


Like anything in life there are no one hundred percent guarantees but there are some things you can watch out for.


1. Goodbye Contact System

You two have been communicating pretty regularly with no problems thanks to the dating service you both have signed up for. Now however, they want to bypass that and start communicating with you directly via email; specifically your primary address. Why? Do not be afraid to ask that question. Tell them you want to keep things as they are and gauge their reaction? Do they get angry and impatient about it? If so watch out.


2. The Too Good to Be True Photo

Your online photo shows you at your best but their photo looks like the step out of a high caliber fashion magazine. You do a double take and think to yourself that you have struck gold. Chances are you haven't.


Many scammers are experts are finding a photograph online and cropping it until it fits their profile. The whole point is to get your hormones racing way out in front of your reasoning capabilities as well as your instinct. When you see one of these, take a step back and do some more investigating.


3. They Love You. Really?

Regardless of how much time has passed they start laying it on thick. They love you and cannot live without you. Where did this come from? You admit the conversations have been terrific but keep in mind you still have not met this person. Whether scammer or not, anyone professing their unrequited love should have your instincts ringing like a ten alarm fire bell.


4. The Hard Luck Story.

They would sure love to meet you but wouldn't you know it they just do not have the transportation or the funds. In Nigeria (currently the scam capitol of the internet) the hard luck story has been raised to an art form.


They are stranded in a hotel by an angry desk clerk who has confiscated their airline ticket. He is holding it as payment since your online dating partner's belongings were stolen and their whole family was wiped out in a single engine plane which crashed on the runway as they were on their way to the bank to deposit your partner's inheritance check. Get the idea?


5. Money Time

You've kept your wits about you for the most part but now the gloves are off. They want money and they want it now. The communique get more desperate and are now coming faster than the hard luck stories. In fact they start giving you specific instructions about transferring money.


You are not online to be anyone's personal atm machine. If you feel the need to continue the communication let them know in no uncertain terms you will not provide money for anything. If they are a scammer that will probably end the "romance" right there. If they persist end all communication and if possible contact the proper authorities.


There are many people who are genuine and really do want to meet you online; for that reason do not be afraid to give some of the online dating services a chance. But we live in a world where many others driven solely by greed are out to commit cyber pick pocketing. Just remember the five tips listed above, keep your emotions in check and your instincts on high alert.

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